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From PT-141 to kisspeptin, a new generation of compounds is attracting attention for its potential to influence libido, arousal and sexual response. But are we witnessing a breakthrough in sexual well
She knows what works. She knows what she likes. She can get herself there. So why does partnered sex sometimes make something so familiar feel so difficult?
What we hesitate to admit may reveal as much about our fear of being judged as it does about what turns us on.
Why mystery, independence and the parts of ourselves we keep discovering may matter more to desire than we think
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